Men

So, I've been chatting with one of my friends about guys lately... We always have such great talks revolving around the male species. But she made some really good points that I need to share with all you girls out there who are just so frustrated with the guy situation.

We were discussing how it's so easy to let the thoughts of you dating one of your guy friends just absorb you entirely. It's so easy to do. And you smile because you have this imaginary way that life would be with him. It's so easy to dream and create this non existent type of relationship, when really all the relationship is, is a casual friendship where guy and girl chit chat and share random things. And just cause he tells you he thinks you are amazing and any guy is missing out, doesn't really mean that he's totally into you. Maybe he's saying, you're amazing but so not my type. Wait for the right guy.

We as women want so badly for a man's affections that we will take them even if they are not totally into us, even if they only want to talk to us when it's good for them. It's absolutely terrible. We should never put up with it, however, so often we do, because it's so easy to accept affection from someone who you know it's all wrong than to have no affections at all.

Girl's do it to... they only talk to a guy when they are bored, or when they have time for him, but don't revolve your lives around someone who doesn't have the time for you. It's just not fair for you or them.